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Thu, Jun. 9th, 2005, 01:34 pm
Another Way Women Test Men to Weed Them Out

Maybe this article from The Morning News can explain so much!

Although in my experience, positive results have not always corresponded to the optimum long-term match (enter disfunctional personality). But there may be something to be said for negative results...!

Fri, May. 13th, 2005, 01:07 am
In Case of Emergency

I called my mom last Sunday to wish her a happy Mother’s Day. Aside from a couple significant topics, I half-listened (I know, I’m a terrible daughter) to her ramble on about the recent goings-on in my small Oregon hometown, which are for the most part, not very different from the past goings-on there. But then she brought up something she had heard, something that made her worried about me and my brother, seeing how I am living in New York and he is living in L.A. (Being a country girl her entire life, she is skeptical and fearful of cities, as well as the distance my particularly HUGE city is from her.)

There was a report on CNN (I bet my grandma told her – she’s as sharp as a vampire's incisor, and let’s face it, Mom can hardly stay awake once she sits down these days, television or not, thanks to her sleeping disorder) about Iran, China, Russia, and North Korea now or soon having the capability to detonate an electromagnetic pulse (EMP) in the atmosphere (as in somewhere above the U.S.), wipe out the national power grid, and then possibly take advantage of the mass panic and vulnerability.

I did some follow-up research. The Commission to Assess the Threat to the United States from Electromagnetic Pulse Attack recently testified before the Senate Subcommittee on Terrorism, Technology and Homeland Security on this matter. It anticipated that in the worst-case scenario, "[i]n a matter of hours after an EMP, American cities would be in flames and they would burn down." There would be no electricity to pump water to put out the fires, nor to refrigerate food. They, and then my mom, spoke in terms of months, or possibly years, before systems would be completely restored in this worst-case scenario, of subsequent looting, and of the lack of drinkable water or communication. How would I be able to contact her, or she contact me? My mom spoke of me needing to think of a plan ahead of time, so I will be prepared if something like this should happen. I told her, “Well, I could somehow get out of the city, and send correspondence the old-fashioned way – through the mail.” I understand that this possibility of disconnect terrifies her. For me, (and half of me realizes how insensitive and yes, stupidly romantic – or just plain stupid to some -- I am for saying this) and while I do not want anyone to get hurt, I am not so much scared as I am intrigued with the possibility of a grand adventure, a la Stephen King’s “The Stand” or other glorified tales of disaster and survival (of course, being the heroine of my story, I am assuming that I am one of the survivors).

This topic of survival has always intrigued me. What would we do if one day, we had no more access to safe running water or electricity? We have become so dependent upon it and all of the other conveniences-turned-necessities that, according to the history books and my grandparents, quite recently did not even exist. And yet somehow people survived before our beloved cell phones and internet, not to mention the “basics” like electricity, refrigerators, televisions and telephones, were integrated as “natural” parts of our everyday existence. I have always been a fan (in theory for the most part so far) of do-it-yourself, back-to-nature skills. Maybe it is because once all the superfluous distractions are stripped away, what everything really comes down to is that which gives and sustains life: breath, water, food, shelter, and hopefully some compassion and love. All of the layers after these undeniably contribute to our lives, and help distinguish and make possible all of our individual, wonderful peculiarities, but they cannot really be substitutes for the essentials – but rather additions, and sometimes I think we lose sight of that.

But back to the plan. If I was to devise an action plan in case of emergency, what would it be? Should I start stockpiling bottled water and canned food, 1950's bombshelter and Y2K style? That’s just embarrassing once nothing comes to pass of this, and not very handy if everything is burning. Should I instead pack a small bag of essentials in case flight is imminent, and if so, what should it include (I need to be able to carry it, and should assume that access to electricity is inaccessible)? (This is reminding me of a certain questionnaire I recently filled out online. M – I know you know what I’m referring to. Except I didn’t take that one so literally.)

* Ipod is pretty much out of the question, since I won’t be able to charge the battery. Damn.
* Wireless phone is out. (However, I could still attempt to reach Mom on the landed line for a couple days, so maybe I’ll need some quarters for payphones – do those still exist? And a list of my phone numbers, since I only remember the number for my own cell phone and those of my childhood: my mom, my dad, and my grandparents.)

So I guess that leaves:
* Passport – just in case I can catch a flight, need to hop across a border, or need ID when they start establishing new governments. Ha...more like a memento of my past life.
* Cash
* Bottled water
* Some food (Peanut butter? That could tide me over for a while, right? Throw in a side of chocolate, and mmmm, I can be happy, too (or sick). Maybe some vitamins? Some fruit? And for longer term: some seeds – herbs, veggies, fruit – for starting life in the new world, or whatever forest I get lost in...)
* Matches/lighter
* Flashlight
* Some sort of weapon (maybe my wine key – bottle opener/corkscrew and tiny little blade! Maybe someone will forget to lock the wine store...)
* Would I have room for one book? Maybe Thus Spoke Zarathustra, to keep my wits about me, or lose them, depending on your point of view...
* And of course, I would need to plan the perfect outfit ahead of time (it takes me way too long if I’m just waking up or caught off guard by something like cities burning): Hmm, which season? Better plan for the cold: Black down coat, black knit hat, scarf and gloves, denim Sevens, a black tank, under my drapey black short sleeve V-neck shirt, under my funky black Plein Sud sweater, and my calf-high black and white Puma sneaker boots. Might as well go stealth for the occasion, and with layers to blend into various possible scenarios.
* Do I have any room for a blanket?
* One more thing – I think I need to invest in a bicycle, with a basket in the front, just in case transportation is really out of control when it comes time to escape the chaos. And then, whatever the outcome, I can at least ride it to the grocery store or check out the local neighborhoods.

OK, Mom. Plan is all set. Now you can rest easily, knowing your daughter is prepared. For what, exactly (based on my list of ingredients), remains to be seen.

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Oh, and probably not to worry too much about the vulnerability reported by the Commission, at least according to the rest of what they reported (if it is to be believed, and not just a ploy to appease the masses). Plans have been recommended and some steps are already underway; if their recommendations are heeded, the U.S. should be prepared to secure the power grid and save the day in a couple years. Also, despite their finger-pointing at Iran, China, Russia and North Korea for attempting to possess the technology to use the EMP (as if the U.S. doesn't horde this techonology themselves!), it seemed like they viewed only North Korea being crazy enough to carry it out (anyone posing a threat to the U.S. has to have something wrong with them, you know), and even then not for a couple years. By which time the U.S. should have everything and everyone back under control...

Sat, May. 7th, 2005, 08:12 pm
Brunch!

Hangover brunch. Since I moved to New York, this has become one of my favorite activities that I do on a somewhat regular basis. (Uh-oh, now everyone is going to find out that being hungover is also on the list of regular activities. As if that was a big secret.)

Hangover brunch is the perfect opportunity to meet up with good friends (highly likely also hungover). We then can rehash events from the night just passed, drink some spicy bloody's (actually an assortment of beverages, often including coffee, water, juice, root beer, more bloody's, more water), and eat some yummy huevos rancheros, maybe even some fries. Most importantly (once we have some food to feed the hole in our stomachs, of course), we can openly and honestly, without the hesitation sometimes associated with sobriety and with much more humor, discuss the numerous items on our lives' agendas. (See? It can be a responsible and productive way to spend a weekend afternoon. Even if some of those priorities include trying to figure out how to avoid the burden of responsiblity. And the irony of me trying to understand just how and why I keep running low on cash after my recent trend of nights spent out drinking, and then splurging on $30 brunch meals the day after -- not to mention my recent shoe spree -- really isn't lost on me. A girl has to eat, though! Especially when hungover.)

Today, a couple friends and I revisited our favorite brunch location: Relish in Williamsburg. I highly recommend it. It has delicious, comforting food and the cool ambiance of a retro '50's diner, inside and out (and yes, hipsters are included -- but really, they're harmless).

Wed, May. 4th, 2005, 11:21 pm
Out of Curiosity...Not That I Would Choose A Single One of the Below; Guess I'm a Sucker for a Quiz

You scored as Buddhism. Your beliefs most closely resemble those of Buddhism. Do more research on Buddhism and possibly consider becoming Buddhist, if you are not already.

In Buddhism, there are Four Noble Truths: (1) Life is suffering. (2) All suffering is caused by ignorance of the nature of reality and the craving, attachment, and grasping that result from such ignorance. (3) Suffering can be ended by overcoming ignorance and attachment. (4) The path to the suppression of suffering is the Noble Eightfold Path, which consists of right views, right intention, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right-mindedness, and right contemplation. These eight are usually divided into three categories that base the Buddhist faith: morality, wisdom, and samadhi, or concentration. In Buddhism, there is no hierarchy, nor caste system; the Buddha taught that one's spiritual worth is not based on birth.

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Buddhism

83%

Paganism

63%

Hinduism

63%

Islam

58%

Satanism

58%

atheism

42%

Christianity

42%

agnosticism

38%

Judaism

38%

Which religion is the right one for you? (new version)
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Yes, Buddhism probably does fit me best out of the options given. If obligated to align myself with any school of "religious" (or rather, spiritual) thought out there, though, these days I definitely have given myself over to the words of Orin.

Sat, Apr. 23rd, 2005, 09:20 pm
Music Survey

courtesy of [info]damiella

01. Total volume of music files on my computer:
21.9 GB

02. The last CD I bought was:
ummm...it's been so long since i bought an actual physical CD. Recently bought "Wild Horses" -- The Sundays off i-tunes, though...

03. The last song I listened to before writing this was:
"Ella Megalast Burls Forever" - Cocteau Twins

04. Which band would you suggest to other folks?
There could be so many...how does one choose??? OK: let's begin with Air, the earlier Belle and Sebastian (not the latest album, though), and Rufus Wainwright. Sorry, I know that was 3. I'm cheating.

05. Five songs I listen to a lot or that mean a lot to me:

1. "Custom Concern" by Modest Mouse. Reflection of my discontent...
"Message read on the bathroom wall says I don't feel at all like i thought,
and we're losing all touch losing all touch building a desert"

2. "Tower of Learning" by Rufus Wainwright. Despite all his projected bravado (which I personally rather enjoy), he still is searching for that seemingly-elusive thing, as I would like to think that all of us are...

3. "Sweet Jane" by The Cowboy Junkies. sweet and bitter. bitter and sweet. lovely.

4. "Stop Whispering" by Radiohead.

5. "Martha" by Tom Waits. I start sobbing each time I hear this song. I don't mind the sobbing.

06. [Ten] albums I listen to a lot or that mean a lot to me [in no real order]:

"Talkie-Walkie" -- Air
"The Boy With the Arab Strap" -- Belle and Sebastian
"Doolittle" -- The Pixies
"This Is a Long Drive for Someone with Nothing to Think About" -- Modest Mouse. Reminds me of my trek around Europe, and a great soundtrack for reading "You Shall Know Our Velocity" as well.
"Pink Moon" -- Nick Drake
"The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust" -- David Bowie
"Achtung Baby" -- U2
"Grace" -- Jeff Buckley
"Debut" -- Bjork
"Pablo Honey" -- Radiohead

Tag, you're it! Now it's your turn...

Thu, Apr. 14th, 2005, 12:22 am
Spring: Rejuvenated

I didn't really take all the East Coasters seriously enough when they warned me with the "you'll sees" about New York winters. And when I moved here from LA (hey -- I wasn't always so spoiled by the weather, but it had been 5 years of non-seasons!), when I skipped along with autumn and survived my first gusty cold streak then, I figured, the walk into winter won't be so bad. And it really wasn't. I wised up and dressed warmly (using the cold as yet another reason to shop, for which I am still paying), worked way too many long hours in a politics-ridden & power-shifting office, and even managed to shovel snow too many times. It was not until the very end -- until winter's page was on the verge of being turned, that I realized that winter had really built up and backed up in me, and that I was sick of it! Fed up with how long it had really dragged out -- physically and emotionally. The weather would start to warm up a bit, and then, somehow it would be snowing yet again! And in the face of this reality, I finally got over the romanticized view of the snow, because my reality now obliged me to shovel it, trample through it and its slushed dirty remains, fight my way into the city despite the lack of trains, just to work in an office and ensure that money is made for the company, when all I wanted to do was take a damn snow day for once.

Thankfully, though, all the dark depressions of winter are now over (and please don't contradict this, even if I am mistaken!!!). Spring! It may still be chilly, but the sun is shining, and I have put my winter coat away in the back of my mind (if not yet into the back of the closet). I have even splurged a bit too much on a springier wardrobe, and I will wear those sparkly metallic shoes outside (and soon all the skirts!), cold be damned! Physically, my body has alerted to this shift, as I have not only found a positive gym groove this last month (sure, my visits started out at 2 times per week, but I upped them to 3 times last week, and am aiming for 4 this week), but also finally am back on my long-1 1/2 year-lost spinning schedule. After just two days of spinning this week, my body knows that it is back. Well, at least it knows that it will be! Plus, mentally and emotionally, my mind and outlook are now so much more positive -- no more hibernating for me! It's time to put the Buffy to bed soon, and start exploring the city and some more creative, life-expanding interests!